i found a envelope in a folder that was always in his bag he had left it on the table when he left for work,i thought the letter was for me so i opened it and i saw a few things i did not like. one was a happy one year anniversary card and so i thought maybe it was an ex g/f letter but i remembered the only other girl he has been with more than a year was a g/f in 6th grade which he was with for three years other g/f were only few months another thing i read was:i hope you can see me today,its been a year since we've been together and i'm so glad we haven't been caught.another thing was:when we started talking on myspace.but what was weird was when i asked him to make a myspace for himself he said "i've never made a myspace before this is my first one".at the end of the letter it said "wait for me to finish collage"and her name which is even MORE strange because his cousin(not by blood) has the same name and it is a really rare name and she is in collage too.and when he leaves to her house so she can give him a ride to the store or to work he tells me not to tell his family that he went to his cousins house because he said it will cause family problems with her uncle and his dad.i also wonder sometimes why she does so much for him? i also found a greyhound ticket which said austin tx price 20.00 he said he had lost a 20 dollar bill.i did confront him about the greyhound ticket he said"i forgot to show this to you,my friend showed me how to get a greyhound ticket under any ones name"and i kinda believed him but not so much after i found a receipt in his bag that said austin airport mall i asked him if he went to austin and he got mad and said "why would i go there?"when i showed him the reciet and he said i didnt know i went there he said "my friend was taking me to a game store he knew about and i didnt notice the time since i was playing the nintendo ds,he said i didnt know it was austin.i really didnt buy that how can you not know you went to austin?! the drive from san antonio to austin is about a hour and 30 mins long! anyways the reason why the trip to austin was strange because his cousins college is in austin. sorry for such the long question but i really dont want to ruin this relationship we've been together for 2yrs we have the same likes dislikes and morals and ideals it would really suck to lose him i dont know if he would get mad at me for snooping and distrusting him but all these things are just too weird|||That is really weird. It's good that you're paying attention though. Nobody should be in a relationship and just be completely blinded by love if there's other stuff going on. If he sounds like hes getting upset by you asking a simple question, it means he's nervous that you might be finding something out. Talk to him and tell him that you really do care about him, you just want him to be honest with you.|||He's cheating and you sound really young. It's time to move on!|||How can you even have any doubt left? He is ABSOLUTELY cheating. Dump him, he's not worth crying over.|||your story is too long i cant read it my eyes are paining now|||what you do is break up with him without giving a reason. 'cause dude is bangin' his cousin.|||You must be young not to figure this one out. Of course he's cheating on you, with the "not by blood " cousin. Suck in the truth and press on with your life. Damn the snooping, women's intuition made it possible for you to find that envelope in that bag that day. Let him go. Tell him to KICK CANS>>>|||Ask him if he cheated on you!!! If he did then let him go. He doesn't deserve you.|||He's cheating and you know it. Stop kidding yourself and either move on or stay and deal with it.|||Sorry to have to state the obvious, but your BF is definitely cheating on you with his cousin, and apparently it's been going on for about a year. You and he have the same likes and dislikes, but not the same morals, unless you are a cheater, too! I wouldn't worry too much about him getting mad at you for snooping. He's flat out busted and that's that. You have no choice but to tell him that you know about him cheating, and what you want to do from there.|||If you find something that you don't understand then wait until he comes home hand him that letter and ask him what that is. How old is he ? If he is older then 10 he should know if he went to austin or what even playing DS. Liar.|||i am sorry about whats going on in your life but first stop and think about what your saying okay.... if it all makes Sense about the letter and the ticket and the Living he is for sure sleeping with his cousin and also why wont he say nothing to his family ,just a thought but maybe there is something the family knows about them two and he don't want you to find out from them and he don't want to find out from you ,so maybe you might wanna spill the beans and sit back and watch what is said and done|||Ok my opinion is that the answer is in front of you. You just don鈥檛 want to face it. He is a lier and he is with his so call cousin. You need to stop covering up for him and only because you have been with him for 2 years you don鈥檛 want to let him go then you must not care if he is cheating on you. Stop been a ding dong and jump on him and tell him what the hell does he think he is doing and explain all that you found. If he tries to denied it and act like the victim then you know he is lying. You don鈥檛 need this men in your life. If can go to Austin and you didn鈥檛 know about it then this is not a serious relationship. Where is your self steam.

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