at some point i believe people reach that point where the hell with everyone and how they feel. i have tried to open my doors to help my sister baby and her man. they have lived here for 3 weeks now and have been eating me out of a house and home. before they came i use to have a house full of food, but now i look in my frige this morning and find nothing in there. thye both are jobless and she dont want to even go to welfare or work or do anything that requires getting out the house day to day to get a freaking life. my wife and i have brought her baby so many clothes and wipes and even diapers. the house is always dirty now and today they were suppose to get up and take care of some business but they instead as im writing this are alseep. what i asking is will i be wrong for just buying 2 greyhound tickets and just sending them back to where they came from. because after all im more miserable than ever. i use to be happy but now i am stressed daily with cleaning up after them. any advice.|||By allowing them to live with you and do nothing and not speaking up you are enabling their lifestyle. You need to speak up. Give them time limits. If not for them, then for your own peace of mind. Set some rules. While they are with you and not working and living off your dime they will: 1) clean up after themselves & their child, do their own laundry, etc.... 2) look for work/apply for jobs Monday through Friday 3) apply for assistance so that they can move to their own place 4) do all of the above within the next (say) 30 days otherwise they'll be out on the streets homeless and penniless. I am not suggesting you toss out the baby but if you continue to enable them, they'll continue to take advantage of you.|||kick her out she needs to help

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